March 6, 2023

Why Thinking That Success Is Up to You Is Hurting You

The thought that success is up to you, is actually hurting you.

I get it.

You've been told to "take ownership" and I totally agree with that advice too.

But taking it to the Nth degree, to where success is only up to you, is most likely not helping your future.

I was having a conversation recently with someone who reminded me that this thought never served me when I used to think it too.

Now I'm not saying that everyone is going to feel this same way, but after having thousands of coaching calls where this topic comes up, I've found the majority of time it actually gets you off track even though it might feel great when you start to say it.

Think about it like this... If it's up to you, it's so easy to convince yourself to go at it alone.

And if you're alone, you're stuck doing what you've always done.

Which means you'll keep getting what you've always gotten.

Before you know it, your belief in yourself drops off the face of the planet... But it has noting to do with your potential.

It was just the "story" you were telling yourself.

Which is why I created todays' video, because we need to dive into this story that "Success is up to you"  and come up with a NEW story that actually serves us.

If you're ready to do that with me today, let's go!

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